The writers of At the desk of a real wife like to extend our deepest apologies to our followers for our recent hiatus.  We had a blog prepared to be released before the Valentine's day holiday to encourage those in love and seeking love. Also, one written for the day after for those that might have experienced disappointment if their expectations had not been met.   But with the recent untimely death of a wonderful sister,  mother and remarkable woman,  we were truly experiencing a tremendous loss. We could not let another day go by without acknowledging that she will truly be missed.
As every one begins to think back to her life, we also begin to reflect on our own. We hear the songs and remember where we were and who we were with.  Whether or not you loved her music or criticized her antics we have to remember she was a woman who was like most of us. She dreamed. She loved. She worked hard and conquered the world. The same world she loved so much turned their back when she experienced her trials and shortcomings. We all watched in awe. Personal mishaps and mistakes are usually done in private. We all prefer it that way and have that option.   Unlike us,  all her drama was displayed in front of the whole world.  When we experience trouble or pain in our lives only our best friend has the privilege to travel that journey with us.  We can fall and get back up again and no one has to know but us.  We can go through our time of bad choices and only a select few know our intimate secrets.  I remember her saying "How good it felt to be looked at and not be judged." I know that there are many of us that share that same sentiment.
 Also, when we think of Whitney we think GIFTED. When I think of the gifts that God bestows upon each and every one of us I am led to Matthew 25:14. The man entrusted his servants with different gifts, or talents (depending on your version).  Now what they did with them while he was gone led to them receiving the man's reward to share in his happiness upon return.

So whatever your talent is: trust God, walk into purpose and live your life for His glory.  Pray for guidance to learn  your destiny so when you are called home, He will say " welcome,  my good and faithful servant."  Remember that He may give you one talent and your neighbor five. But it is what you do with YOUR TALENT that makes the difference. Don't continue the blame game. Or hater game.  Forgive, love and move forward and if you need help, seek it.  Love yourself.  Believe in yourself.  Encourage others.  The devil will prevent you from believing in your gifted talents.  He will trick you into believing that your one talent is not worth as much or has as much significance as someone else's. But it is. It was specifically designed just for you and just for His purpose.
Remember you are wonderfully made... Let me know how you feel about this note from the desk of a real wife.....